Losing friends

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I seem to have entered a phase where I seem to lose friends on a regular basis. One friend called me a racist and acts awkwardly around me, the other friend said that I was looking for attention whenever I post a sad status update on fb. The other one just doesn't reply to my messages anymore ever since his fiance (they were not dating or engaged at the time) told me that she loved me. I told him what she said to me. To which he replied that she was just saying it platonicly - a month later they were engaged and I was in a psych hospital after I had a breakdown due to the whole incident.

Anyway, since then, this friend has been ignoring my text messages and calls. I sent him an IM this week and he said hi, then told me that I should stop commenting on his friends status updates since it was annoying his friend

That's 4 friends in the space of a month. I hate this especially since I am clueless about social interactions.

Better having no friends than having frenemies only.

Looks like you're on your way to a better life, without annoying people.

Consider it a good riddance.

people ignoring you cant be your friends they are more of acquaintances

Right. Never a "friend" to begin with. Just do whatever is in your power to do ( which isnt controlling others actions)