Feeling nervous about a social outing
In about a half hour I will be going to an improv night at some place. I will be going with a 20 year old that I don't know yet and one or more of his friends. Just kind of nervous about it
Keep your hand over your drink at all times. Do not leave it unattended and then drink from it. If you do leave it unattended, don't drink from it after that. Instead get a fresh drink. You never know who might put something in it, so don't take chances. Also, don't overdo it on the booze. Better still stay sober. Remember, you don't know these people, so you have to look out for yourself.
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Okay so John picked me up around 9 and talked with me some on the way to some guys house. John said we would go into the garage where they were jamming for a bit then we would head to the improv show, most or all of them were music majors. When we got there there were 4 people smoking, including me there were 7 people. I don't smoke and I don't like smoking. Then they started playing music really loud. It was too loud. A bass, guiter, drums, and a few other things. after about 15 minutes later it stopped.
So we were heading to his car and John mentioned Dragon ball z and I made a comment about it (I have read the manga), which he thought was awesome. We got there it and it was a coffee house and the top floor had the improv place. We had to order a tea or something so that you paid for something. I don't like tea, and had no idea what I wanted. John told me tea was the cheapest so i ordered tea. The cashier asked what kind I wanted... I don't know I don't drink tea. I couldn't care less. I ordered green tea, that and earl grey (artemis fowl) are the only kinds I know of, oh and chai tea (but that was more expensive). But it was so crowded you couldn't see the improv performance at all. So we left to go to a 24 hour cheap diner after about a half hour.
We ordered some cheap breakfast foods, one of the 3 other people I was with said what was a good deal so I ordered it. They had a short conversation about how one of there friends had ocd but also had adhd (ended with weird...), I almost blurted out that it kind of sounds like aspergers but luckily I didn't. There was some talk about movies which isn't too hard to talk about. Then one person left and Cody dropped bye. Cody was weird. A guy was mentioned as being really tall at 6ft 4. So I said I didn't really think that was tall because my stepdad was taller, just used to seeing people that are tall. Cody said yeah well my stepdad is in prison for raping a b***h. I just kind of stared blankly at him. Naw just kidding I don't have a step dad. My dad is in prison though for killing a b***h. The b***h was my mom. Weird thing to share. (Afterword I asked John if cody was being sarcastic and he said yeah and cody is kinda out there). I pointed out that the bill we got said my meal and the other guys was 30 cents higher than the guy (i don't remember his name) said it would be. Even though I said on the menu it was higher than he said. John kind of stared at me blankly then said it didn't really matter. Overall eating there went well.
So John ended up driving us all home dropping cody off first. Cody said bye and then said oh and nice to meet you and prodded my shoulder. I kinda flinched and said don't. So he did it twice more. I grapped his wrist and proceeded to twist his arm (a little bit of an over reaction). He said dude I was just joking. I said okay and let go. After we left I said I don't like touch. John said yeah Cody is just kind of like that some times. He dropped me off at my house and said that they would call me saturday night. We were gone about 3 hours.
I thought I had a pretty good time except for cody and the beginning. Had some laughs and they liked me.
So we were heading to his car and John mentioned Dragon ball z and I made a comment about it (I have read the manga), which he thought was awesome. We got there it and it was a coffee house and the top floor had the improv place. We had to order a tea or something so that you paid for something. I don't like tea, and had no idea what I wanted. John told me tea was the cheapest so i ordered tea. The cashier asked what kind I wanted... I don't know I don't drink tea. I couldn't care less. I ordered green tea, that and earl grey (artemis fowl) are the only kinds I know of, oh and chai tea (but that was more expensive). But it was so crowded you couldn't see the improv performance at all. So we left to go to a 24 hour cheap diner after about a half hour.
We ordered some cheap breakfast foods, one of the 3 other people I was with said what was a good deal so I ordered it. They had a short conversation about how one of there friends had ocd but also had adhd (ended with weird...), I almost blurted out that it kind of sounds like aspergers but luckily I didn't. There was some talk about movies which isn't too hard to talk about. Then one person left and Cody dropped bye. Cody was weird. A guy was mentioned as being really tall at 6ft 4. So I said I didn't really think that was tall because my stepdad was taller, just used to seeing people that are tall. Cody said yeah well my stepdad is in prison for raping a b***h. I just kind of stared blankly at him. Naw just kidding I don't have a step dad. My dad is in prison though for killing a b***h. The b***h was my mom. Weird thing to share. (Afterword I asked John if cody was being sarcastic and he said yeah and cody is kinda out there). I pointed out that the bill we got said my meal and the other guys was 30 cents higher than the guy (i don't remember his name) said it would be. Even though I said on the menu it was higher than he said. John kind of stared at me blankly then said it didn't really matter. Overall eating there went well.
So John ended up driving us all home dropping cody off first. Cody said bye and then said oh and nice to meet you and prodded my shoulder. I kinda flinched and said don't. So he did it twice more. I grapped his wrist and proceeded to twist his arm (a little bit of an over reaction). He said dude I was just joking. I said okay and let go. After we left I said I don't like touch. John said yeah Cody is just kind of like that some times. He dropped me off at my house and said that they would call me saturday night. We were gone about 3 hours.
I thought I had a pretty good time except for cody and the beginning. Had some laughs and they liked me.
good to know that you had a comfortable time with them....its hard to get like minded people
keep your fingers crossed for next saturday meeting
there are some weirdo's like cody who are blunt and irritating...keep out an eye for them
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Thanks. Don't know when John is supposed to call, probably after 7. He is only here for easter break.
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