How to build a friendship with a old classmate???

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I bumped into an old classmate who I hung out for a few months in school back when we were 14. Now we are 18 and we saw bumped into each other when I was on a school trip, and we hung and chat a bit, and then exchanged numbers and became frined on Facebook.

But problem is she isn't the greatest texter and also she isnt on facebook much so its hard to chat to her much in that way. Also she fell out with her other friends, and is alone apart from her boyfriend, so i think she is just gotton so used to hanging out with him all the time. It is also our last school year so exams are taking up our time at the moment.

So i think by the looks of it, I will have to organise meeting up and stuff if I want a friendship with her.

But how do I do that? Because of my AS when I was younger, I was never a good hostess to my friends and I always hung in the background at things, so I never invited people to my house or organized things, coz I was too scared too, in case I looked stupid, or that people would gossip about my lifestyld and family life at school (It wasnt exactly a happy one when I was younger...)

So how does an Aspie girl organise and try to build a friendship for the first time?

I do have a few friends, but that happened but they organsie the stuff with me, I never did it before in my life.

Please help!

The advantage that girls have over guys with friends is that girls can more easily get together without needing a particular reason. "Just to talk," can fit the bill quite nicely. So, just send her a note saying, "Hey, we should get together again. How about we get some coffee at so-and-so and catch up." Simple as that.