Rule for when you get close to small groups of NT'S?

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JohnConnor
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08 May 2013, 9:55 am

Do your best to avoid any kind of drama in the group that goes on in the social circle? Unless the people involve ask you directly for your opinion or you get involved by way that was not of your making?



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08 May 2013, 10:16 am

I think you are going to need to be more specific.



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08 May 2013, 10:52 am

For example: If two people are in a volatile relationship or somebody does something socially that gives the impression that they are of a lower standing in a social group. For example: 6 people are in a hot tub together and one girl decides to take off her clothes and make out with other people in the hot tub, be they men or women. Just go with the flow unless it directly affects you in a negative way.



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08 May 2013, 11:05 am

JohnConnor wrote:
For example: If two people are in a volatile relationship or somebody does something socially that gives the impression that they are of a lower standing in a social group. For example: 6 people are in a hot tub together and one girl decides to take off her clothes and make out with other people in the hot tub, be they men or women. Just go with the flow unless it directly affects you in a negative way.
If there's a naked girl in a hot tub, I wouldn't worry too much. They almost certainly aren't going to be actively paying attention to anything you say or do.



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08 May 2013, 2:27 pm

Ok that was a bad example.


What I mean to say is if somebody does something that you find offensive but yet it does not affect you directly just go with the flow on it.