How do I end up becoming the scourge of every group

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I dont know how this happens but wherever I go whether online or offline I ALWAYS without any exceptions end up either becoming the scapegoat or doing things that get me branded as a freak or weirdo.

I can see it happening here and its happened in virtually every other forum ive joined for any length of time. Its killing me and I dont know why it keeps happening. I worry that im actually sabotaging myself deliberately. I realsie that I inevitably do exactly the right thing to get myself hated. I push the right buttons as it were.

People then conspire behind my back (and no im not paranoid as my suspicions have been openly confirmed by people) and eventually it comes out that I did a b and c and this is why im hated

Im not playing a victim here - all im saying is that I dont understand whats happening

Hopefully when the same thing happens here if it isnt already, I wont be left in suspense for too long

How do I stop this?

I haven't noticed anything about you on the forum. While some people might come to dislike you (which is unavoidable) it's far too big of a social setting for it to be a unanimous opinion.

I can't honestly imagine anyone on this site wanting to conspire about you behind your back.

I may be projecting because of my consistent past experience but extrapolation of this pattern would suggest that im going to say or do exactly* whats required to get me a reputation here.

I may be projecting because of my consistent past experience but extrapolation of this pattern would suggest that im going to say or do exactly* whats required to get me a reputation here.