What?? I mean seriously?

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Okay, I experienced something and honestly I have no idea if its my Autism acting up, or if its just common sense.
here it goes, please share your thoughts so I know if I am going crazy or not..

For new Years I was invited to a friends house. its not really a friend, at least I dont see her that way, I only think she is obnoxious and annoying, but we ( me and my BF) took the inv anyway because we had nothing else.
We went over to their place, there were some work colleagues, her and me work in the same place.
So I did kind of know them, not very well, but we shared some words in the past.

We were drinking, having fun etc, then some of them were making strange poses for a camera, I took a few as well, just for the fun on it, with no intentions what so ever.

Now today this girl is telling me I had no right to make photo's of her friends in her house, because it are people I didn't know..
Is this normal?? I really had no intention with this s**t at all...

It isn't normal no. If they want to take pictures with you and you're having fun she can't tell you not to. That's just ridiculous and overbearing, they can have new friends.

If the people at the party were okay with you taking photos then there should be no problem. If she says something like that again you can ask her to explain what she meant by that and to back her argument up with facts. Also, if those people had a problem with you taking photos then they should be the ones approaching you and not her - it is not her business. They are grown adults and can look after themselves. So, she is making this situation about her (it doesn't matter if they are her 'friends' or not) and the only reason why someone would do that is because they feel threatened in some way - she is trying to put you back in your 'place', wherever that place might be. Perhaps she views you as a friend-stealer.

She didn't like that her friends payed a little of attention to you. That's why she's upset. She would have preferred if they ignored you completely.