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KingofKaboom
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02 Feb 2014, 9:40 pm

I keep messaging them and they think I'm crazy stalker guy now but I just miss them. How can I just get over this and move on It's not working so far :(


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02 Feb 2014, 11:36 pm

what exactly happened?



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03 Feb 2014, 12:55 am

Can you write her a letter and not send it? I did this multiple times with my friend/almost girlfriend who recently quit compulsively contacting. I used the notes app on my cell phone. I analyzed the situation to death until I finally had some semblance of closure. This kept me from actually contacting her compulsively. I also talked about the situation with other people who I trusted when I got too obsessed with her. It has been over a month since I last contacted her. I still miss her and think about her a lot but I am not obsessed with contacting her anymore. In fact, I am looking for other women to date.