Getting along with women...

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I am a twenty-four (24) year old male, and I have no female friends or girlfriend because of my obsession with sex, plus I am a pornography addict, and indulge in self-gratification, and I have been struggling to get out amongst women out in the community and socialize with them, but I don't know of any places to go - other besides strip and night clubs - because it's against my religion to go to them sinful places and be tempted.
May I please have some advice on how to not be automatically romantically attracted to them once I meet them, 'cause that's the major problem I'm having, and where I can go for additional help with this problem?

LOL, why are strip clubs sinful but pornography isn't? Trust me, you're going to hell either way.

It might surprise you that women are found in every part of modern society. Why, you might encounter them at the grocery store, the gym, or even at work! Not to mention your own church! And they won't even be dressed in a thong and gyrating at you, just going about their business not meaning to turn you on in any way. And if you DO get turned on, it's OK! Just keep it to yourself, be perfectly polite, and Do Not Touch, and you will be just fine.

the problems you have communicating with women will be similar to the problems you have communicating with men they are both human beings start looking at the real life person you are talking to . one thing that will help is if you listen more and talk less . People on the autism spectrum tend to be self centred that's a big part of the reason why people with Asperger's do not have friends they tend to go on about their special interest I strongly suspect you are a virgin I want you to know that losing your virginity will not help you with your communication problems . Unfortunately a lot of men with Asperger's get conned into spending money on pick up and pick up related products a huge problem with the seduction community is that they look at women as being different or separate from men in the way they think ect I a 50 year old male and I unfortunately did this for about 5 years till I discovered I had Asperger's my advice to you get rid of your internet connection join a gym like the ymca work on your listening and social skills . try to be more interested in the other person going to bars is a bad idea anyway as your poor social skills will be worse with the loud music and as for strip clubs the olny thing those women will be after is your money they will try to con you into being a regular customer you wont get sex but you will end up spending thousands of dollars trying to get laid

Yes, the first time you talk to women, you'll be really nervous. But eventually if you talk to enough women, you'll calm down, lose the anxiety and realize that they're regular people just like guys are.

But there's no way to avoid that difficult first step.

Listen to what? You have to persist in socializing the proper way. Find common interests. Find common background. They'll be many misses until a "hit"--but that "hit" will be worth enduring all those "misses."

I've had miss after miss after miss after miss---until I took the bull by the horns and (ironically) stopped looking and acting so desperate.

Being an unassertive nonthreatening male, I get along fine with women, but it's a mistake to get close to them. Even small talk has its drawbacks. A lot of women talk too much (no offense ladies) and complain about stuff they won't do anything to change. I like the quiet ones, though; they're always more interesting.