Could you be a friend with a christian?
My best friend is an atheist, and he is friends with a Mormon missionary. I'm agnostic, and I have Christian, Pagan, atheist, Buddhist, Hindu, Muslim, and Jewish friends.
So long as you are open minded about others beliefs, you can make many friends.
The way I made many friends are s visiting religious services. Not just church, but temples, Ramadan, mosques, etc. it's fun, interesting, and a good way to meet people.
And, if somebody gives you a hard time about your religion, they aren't worth being friends with anyway.
Sometimes, it's actually better to get things out in the open (in my opinion at least). Talking about religious beliefs is taboo, but if more people were open about it there would be less controversy and more acceptance.
Okay, so I come on a little strong with my Biblical understanding; just like an evangelist who is determined to prove that everybody is a sinner and going straight to Hell when they die.
But what of it? All I'm doing is sharing what I've learned from the Bible, and using valid Biblical references to support my findings - same Bible, different conclusions. I'm not trying to change their beliefs, just add to them.
It's like when I present a fact-based argument against what someone has posted in WP - because they can not refute the facts or dispute the reasoning, they resort to personal attacks against me.
That's when I know that I'm right.
The Bible is an interesting document, including stories about murder, incest, theft, lies, slavery, fraud, perjury, torture ... Yet Christians seem to have some form of selective blindness when it comes to those parts of the Bible. They seem to act as if those parts don't matter, and that anyone who knows about them - especially those of us who speak of them - are blasphemous creatures undeserving of love and mercy.
And THAT is why I don't have many Christian friends.
Many Christians automatically disagree with other religions. So I don't think its wrong to point it out if you disagree with theirs. But, I can understand why they would be upset too. Of course, if both parties are understanding and don't try to change each other's beliefs, even if they disagree, there is no reason they can't be friends.
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Most friends I've had have been really different people to me but still the same enough to find common ground.
Anyway, yeah, I am mostly agnostic and can be friends with people of all religions. I just have a problem with religious extremists (which you and many other christians are not). Mild religious people are fine though.
However, I can still see why you and many others can see how religious differences can change relationships. In my experiences many people have shown while they can be friends with someone of a different religion/belief system, they just cannot date/marry one.
The only ones I have personally known to fit your description were dead.
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The only ones I have personally known to fit your description were dead.
I'm happy to say I don't share that experience, Fnord. I've known some Christians who practiced more and preached less, and always got on well with them. Besides, the only reason this thread was made is that one Christian member wanted to know how receptive we were to having someone like him/her as a friend...and maybe is looking for a friend. If this becomes just another religion topic, it won't serve that purpose anymore.
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I've been christian, atheist, antagonistic, and now agnostic.
My approach is simple- "If you want in one god, fine. If you want to believe in many gods, fine. If you want to believe a giant purple goat sneezed reality into existence, fine. As long as you don't try to force your belief(s) on me, we won't have a problem"
I'm fine with making another friend. I'd relish another mind to converse with. I do tend to avoid the subjects of religion and politics since usually somebody (not me) ends up with hurt feelings.
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Yeah. I consider myself to have 3 semi strong friends. One's a follower of Norse Paganism/Asatru. One's somewhere between Agnostic and Atheist. The other is a reformed? Catholic, he doesn't take everything he was taught to heart, he's a progressive individual. I myself am somewhere between deism and agnostic and am pretty spiritual. Religion isn't that big of a deal to me unless you get militant about it.
It's weird to think back that everyone who burned me in my youth were Christian, but I suppose that's just because I grew up in the Midwest of America. I don't harbor ill thoughts against Christians. Like I said I do however dislike those that are militant and would force their religious dogma on others.
"I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. They are so unlike your Christ." -- The Mahatma, Mohandas Gandhi.
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True. But we are better now then we were before.
The only ones I have personally known to fit your description were dead.
thats strange, where do you live? are you lying?
christians that I know are not like that.
No.
You don't know many "Real World Christians", do you?
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