Dealing with unpleasant workmate

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Im a dude and Theres this girl at my work who has strong opinions on things. She's One of those people that think there so smart and are either in university or just graduated.

She reminds me of other girls I've met. If you somehow offend them they will cross the line with violence or crappy behaviour. Going after the unassuming, off course

Well she's turned her sights to me. Telling me to calm down when I was venting for a second about a customer. And saying I'm stupid when I had an incorrect view on a topic.

Because its a small team at work of around ten people ignoring her isn't possible.

Doesn't help that if she does cross a line her dads in a gang and I can't do ****

Try not to let her make you angry and provoke a response. There is a simple way to react. Give her a smile and agree. You do not have to be honest with all people all the time. Some people are not worth it.

Holding your tongue and deflecting the negative comments is a socially responsible way to react.

Good luck, it is not easy.

She sounds like a know it all and those are the types of people you have to ignore. When you do that it will start to strip their ego down.

I know a guy who is on the spectrum like us and though he is well meaning and I enjoy his intelligence he boasts about how smart he is and I have to ignore him when he does that.