kraftiekortie wrote:
I have a Facebook account--but I rarely use it.
I know! Everytime I inbox you you're not on. Then again I don't check mine that often so when I sign on I have about 8 notifications of inboxes. I will be using it more right now while planning the Harry Potter party though. I'm going to be needing input on the people who are coming about who they are going to dress up as. I'm Trelawney. My kids insisted. Not only do I actually do the fortune teller thing for a living (well, extra money for me) but I'm shaped like her and I have lots of shawls and those kind of clothes and I can weird people out with that voodoo stuff lol. But I'm actually good at it, unlike Trelawney. I also have lots of flowing dresses and shawls and jewelry. And some glasses that make my eyes look huge.
As for the OP, I go through times where I'm constantly on FB. I did that with MySpace too. I'm always checking it and then over time it's just a chore so I don't check it for months. You don't have to delete it, just stay away from it for a little while It will still be there and nothing will have changed when you get back, I promise. It never has with mine. You (and I) need to do what I see friends doing when they won't be online much. They just post on their wall that they won't be around on FB for a while so text them if you need them. I never think to do that and people worry. Also, if you disable your account you don't disappear. You stay on your friends lists and you have that empty face profile pic that FB assigns you and it says "disabled". So they know you aren't on there anymore but don't know why. If your settings are private for your page then you could post that you are going to be gone and put your text number there for your friends. That way you find out who actually thinks about you when you don't comment on their threads. Thats what a friend of mind did on there when she was trying to decide who her friends really were before she culled out her friends list. It's a good idea.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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