How do I break the ice with girls online?

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I don't know how.

How do I start conversations and break the ice with girls online?

See if you and the girl have a same interest and then start off with that.

How do I do that? What do I say?

If you can actually post the interests of a girl, we could give you actual examples.

Huh? I really don't understand. I don't know anything about girls and what interests them, and I don't know any girls. But I need help making friends with girls.

Therein lies your problem. Girls like the same sort of stuff as boys. They like specific 'girl' things, but they also enjoy things that are non-gender related. For instance, I am a girl. I love brightly coloured nail polishes and looking at pretty dresses. However, I also enjoy stuff about time travel and historical linguistics. How would you be able to tell? First you'd notice that I have bright blue nail polish. You could mention that and try to start a conversation (how many different colours of nail polish do you have? Which one's your favourite?) OR you could ask me what I like, at which point I'd probably mention time travel or historical linguistics. You can tell if you've hit upon a topic someone is enthusiastic about when they start talking quickly and/or a lot. People love talking about what they're interested in. Even people who don't have Asperger's. And girls.