Absolutely no one wants to talk to me in this town...

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...I just realized that. Literally, whether from some grudge I happened to pick up along the way naturally over the years or some (the only) organizations who might possibly provide me with some company (say, an aspie meeting group) they irrationally all restrict it to those either under 20 (after council cuts, like counselling) or the holy threshold of 25 after which apparently all is destined to a life destitute of company. To make things worse everyone keeps saying how old people are lonely, when I've been totally alone now at least for 2.5 years, and will probably remain for decades... I just hate where I live, like I hated where I lived in my childhood... it's as busy as London, but has absolutely nothing of the sort of variety there is in an actual city... and no university, just because life *must* frustrate me.

Forget the people....Enjoy Nature!

Could you start your own group? It sounds difficult but probably wouldn't be. Put up notices or ads in the same places where the other groups do. Say it's for people 25 and older and give your email address or create a FB group for people to join for information about it. A FB group would be much easier. When you have enough people, say 5 or more, post in the group and either discuss where to meet and set up a first meeting. If it works out, great and if there isn't much interest then you haven't lost anything but a little time spent on it.

Are there other types of groups you could join? Something that maybe slightly interests you that could lead to other things?

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com

you could begin a group on this same conversation, im sure you arent the only one from UK.