How should I get vengeance from my enemies?

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23 Sep 2015, 6:57 pm

Tomorrow, when I see tons of people at my house and at my mosque during Eid (holiday)? There's lot of people in my Turkish-American community who I hate and who hate me, like an 11 year old girl, a grown man who is a preacher, a 16 year old boy who threatened to beat me because I sent him a shock url (since he insulted me online to my brother, said I was ugly and said "does his mother even love him,"), and because I told him his little sister (who was 6), was "so cute," a 16 year old girl who was rude to me, a 15 year old girl who was rude to me, etc. How do I have my vengeance? And should I, considering I may ruin my chances of hanging out with my 12 year old friend?



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23 Sep 2015, 7:02 pm

You're a smart guy with potential.

Stop with this vengeance crap...and move on from this stuff.



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23 Sep 2015, 7:15 pm

Do you see them at school? You could try making a compound with chalk, eraser dust and other dry powders, then put it in their drinks. Just kidding, don't do that.

Seriously though, you could try gossipping if you have charism. Just tell the stuff to your friends, not random people. Then, if they start talking about it to their other friends et cetera, then you were successful.



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23 Sep 2015, 7:25 pm

Is this what "The Prophet" teaches? VENGEANCE?!

Try the advice of a REAL prophet instead ...

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay", says the Lord. On the contrary:

"If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.
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Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.



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23 Sep 2015, 7:58 pm

Fnord wrote:
Is this what "The Prophet" teaches?


Not at all.



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23 Sep 2015, 9:41 pm

You shouldn't....your energy would be better spent on more constructive things. I don't see anything wrong with standing up for yourself or defending yourself if you need to, but don't go out of your way to seek vengeance.


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23 Sep 2015, 9:52 pm

after i broke up with a fiance who beat and raped me, i learned that, "the best revenge is living well." so make yourself happy and let the jerks do their best to do the same. bitterness is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.



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24 Sep 2015, 3:14 am

Take "revenge" by ignoring them and their past actions: show them that you are living normally and happily despite their best efforts and be the better man.
Make them envy you, not hate you; this is the best revenge you can get.



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24 Sep 2015, 3:24 am

What reason could possibly justify having vengeance in your heart, that desire is basic, an exact reflection of others actions, you have the capacity to be more than basic if you walk your own path.



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24 Sep 2015, 5:38 am

your pal Mufti Menk wrote:
"The best revenge is just moving on & getting over it. Don't give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer."

Sent by a friend. I'm sure it will be applicable to many.1


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24 Sep 2015, 6:10 am

MonsterCrack wrote:
Tomorrow, when I see tons of people at my house and at my mosque during Eid (holiday)? There's lot of people in my Turkish-American community who I hate and who hate me, like an 11 year old girl, a grown man who is a preacher, a 16 year old boy who threatened to beat me because I sent him a shock url (since he insulted me online to my brother, said I was ugly and said "does his mother even love him,"), and because I told him his little sister (who was 6), was "so cute," a 16 year old girl who was rude to me, a 15 year old girl who was rude to me, etc. How do I have my vengeance? And should I, considering I may ruin my chances of hanging out with my 12 year old friend?


s**t your pants.



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24 Sep 2015, 6:17 am

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28 Sep 2015, 3:35 am

You could always Reflect on why these people are against you. Maybe apologize or not make the same mistake again



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28 Sep 2015, 12:00 pm

It is not allowed to make posts on WP that promote violence. Topic locked.


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