Making friends and being social

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Hey!

This is my last year of high school and the thought of leaving my class-mates behind makes me feel very sad. The first two years of HS is me successfully beating my social anxiety, and now for the third year I can finally have a good time being social and all. It feels as if I fought that anxiety for no reason, the reward being gone in an instant.

I want to study in a university, though I don't think I'm capable of getting used to too many unfamiliar faces, that would break my mental health.

There's a girl I like in my class and she likes me back, but I don't know whether it's worth establishing a relation with her, even though I desire it.

What should I do? The loneliness has been killing me for several years.

You're young. I say try to establish a relationship with the girl you like. It could be a really important experience for you, even if it doesn't last.