Three times this week I tried to go do something with friends, and every time they completely ignored me the day we were supposed to meet. Last week I asked my friend if she wanted to hang out on Saturday and she basically said maybe. So she didn't exactly agree to meet, but I still consider it to be flaking out since she completely ignored me when I messaged her on Saturday. I tried again to meet her yesterday and she told me maybe, again. I texted her yesterday and again, she didn't respond. I don't know if she is uninterested but I am assuming it is since we don't really know each other that well yet. The third time happened with a different girl that I knew much better. There was a concert on Wednesday and I asked last Sunday if she was going. It ended with her agreeing to pick me up. The time when she was supposed to pick me up passes by and I figure she is just late so I wait 20 minutes to ask where she is. I then texted her four times asking what is going on. She never responded and I don't know what to say to her now. I used to meet her at least once a month for a while and there was never a problem about setting a date and time to meet. This is the first time she ever flaked out on me and so I just don't know now, is this some kind of fad or what? And is there anything I can do to prevent them from doing this in the future, maybe being strict about the date and time?
