I have a habit of looking at almost every person I see?

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02 Apr 2016, 8:50 am

I don't stare at people, but I often glance at as many people as I can while I'm in public? For some reason, I find it interesting to see the different kinds of people that exist in this world? I don't really know any other reason why I do it, but does anyone else have a habit of doing this?

Even when I'm reading a really good book, I sometimes catch myself taking short breaks and glancing at people nearby?



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02 Apr 2016, 10:16 am

That is one of the most NT things ever. Most people love eye contact. From my experience, strangers crave eye contact from other strangers. When I'm walking with an NT, I always notice them look up at people as they pass by.


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02 Apr 2016, 10:36 am

Joe90 wrote:
That is one of the most NT things ever. Most people love eye contact. From my experience, strangers crave eye contact from other strangers. When I'm walking with an NT, I always notice them look up at people as they pass by.


Please don't misunderstand. I like looking at people out of curiosity, but I hate being stared at. It often causes me to get rather angry and paranoid.



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02 Apr 2016, 10:50 am

I hate being stared at too. I avoid eye contact with strangers, but somehow I still can sense if someone is staring at me. It makes me feel self-conscious, paranoid and angry. It makes me feel like I stand out from everybody else. It's been bothering me for years.

But in the OP you described something that I thought was a normal thing.


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02 Apr 2016, 11:11 am

It is a normal thing.



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02 Apr 2016, 3:08 pm

I'm never sure what to do with my eyes when looking about. It's so uncomfortable to suddenly make eye contact, but I wanna look around sometimes (or check people out :wink: )