How to establish proper remoteness

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My problem is that apparently I can make friends (from other's perspective) without personally wanting any of it. Apparently I'm a very interesting person to talk to. However establishing relational bonds is not something I aim for as I am essentially supporter of voluntary human extinction.

In other days people say that I'm very closed off and they thought I was their friend (yeah, right... ). Having extroverted and open intellectual character makes it very hard to regulate interaction appropriately. It is easier around groups where masking myself as a wall flower is much easier. Around few people the risk of establishing a connection is much more probable. How to avoid this without being rude?

Make you position clear straight from the onset, if you accidentally do upset anyone that's their problem, what does it matter anyway, it's not as if they're your friends or they have any meaning to you.

First you should find out what's it about you.
Friendships (all the relationships) depend on some usefulness. Why do they feel you are useful?
Here are a few things which may make you a good choice -
1. Intelligence : Do you exhibit this character? It's very useful.
2. Knowledge : Do you come across as an expert about something (or many things) ? You may wanna tone down your expertise.
3. Autonomy : Do you act like you don't care about the world? It may look like strength and courage. It's useful and you may wanna show a little weakness to avoid the unnecessary bonding.
4. Looks : Do you have good genes? I don't know how you'll hide them but maybe shave your head
5. Charm : Do you pay too much attention to people? Are you a good listener? It may come across as a sign of interest and invitation for friendship from your side. You may wanna mind your own business and not engage in more than necessary support and listening.
6. Position : Are you higher in professional hierarchy? Are you nice to your subordinates? They may see it as if you like them and they feel special. It's helpful for them and they want to maintain (or take it to the next level).
7. Anything that makes you a useful person : Don't let them know. If they know, don't make them feel that you'll give it to them. If they feel you may give it to them, make them feel it's hard to get close to you. If they are close and find you easy to befriend, there's nothing else you can do. Be a good friend.