I understand that a lot of us feel like we are the one who showed up late and crashed the party immediately because of our appearance... Well... In reality lots and I mean lots of people have felt like that. Any of the places you are at people have felt like that. You know what makes you the life of the party? Dancing to the music even though the people around you are dead quiet staring at you showing ugly grins with crossed arms and lowered eyebrows and then with a shrug of the shoulder.