Hi...
So I wonder, what are the proper cues to maintain relationships?
I graduated college a year ago, and I do have many acquaintances. I also have “good friends,” but I do not talk to them on a regular basis. I only talk to them occasionally. I read somewhere, that as one on the spectrum gets older the need for friends diminishes, and that is how I feel. If I was to visit someone, it would feel normal to me like nothing changed. However, I can recognize that for this person they may have grown and experienced many changes in their life - and I have not been a part of these formative experiences. So, therefore, this person does not have the same feeling of closeness that I may feel, or they may feel closer to other people whom, they have more shared experiences.
I just wonder, do you have strategies for maintaining your friendships?
And maintaining bonds with people when you need to “be in your own world.”
Do you share similar experiences?
22 Apr 2018, 7:26 pm
