guitarman2010 wrote:
I feel like that sometimes too, but I know on the other hand how miserable I can get by shutting everyone out. I am on the spectrum too and I have made friends with many different people throughout my years, I'm 34 also. I usually try to be friendly with most people but I have a hard time trusting others. In reference to romantic relationships, I have pretty much given up. I was married over 10 years to a girl I met off the internet back in 2002. She was my first relationship and I ended up marrying her after 3 years of being together. She left me back in 2015 and I've been single snice with the exception of 2 girls I met off POF, they didn't work out. So I certainly understand the frustration with socializing but I'm not shutting myself off because that's a miserable way to live. Ok, my rant is over
I can see how you can get miserable because you decide to shut everyone out,but I also feel,atleast for me, that it's best to not even brother trying to make friendships or romantic relationships . Speaking from my experience,often times,I would get depressed due getting rejected by everyone.Even Aspies females rejected me when it came to romantic relationships.I feel like a outsider,even within the outsider group.Until recently,I used to try make a effort to make friendships and romantic relationships.It never worked out, and I never went beyond normal acquaintances with anyone,which is why I feel, what's the point of even trying to make friendships or romantic relationships anymore,knowing it leads to rejection each and every single time.