I would try to remember that those labels can all exist simultaneously.
If you meet the diagnostic criteria for this or that disorder it doesn't preclude you from also meeting the criteria for others.
Similarly, the other two labels you mention aren't mutually exclusive.
All of those labels are just shorthand to describe different collections of traits and how they're expressed. A lot of people would amass large collections of those labels if they chose to be evaluated for all of the various labels that exist.
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