How do people have more friends in adulthood?

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I used to be friends on social media with someone who I met at college. I used to see photos of her with friends at concerts, holidays, parties, having a whale of a time during her 20s and early 30s. Some of these friends three or four of whom I recognised because she would be out with these particular four one photo I saw was when they celebrated an graduation anniversary. It makes me think "why didn't I have the same number of friends and a social adult life like hers?" It makes me that she's lived the high life because she had quite an active social life and maintained friendships in adulthood after leaving university etc. It also makes me feel I've "missed out" by not having the similar experiences she's had.