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chtucker18
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07 Oct 2007, 5:43 pm

i have a lot of trouble making friends. When people say "whats up" they think i ignore them but i don't. I respond to them but in a way that they wont hear or see it. I need to make a long term relationship. Do you know of any groups that specialize in making friends? If someone has experience in my situation, please respond.



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07 Oct 2007, 6:16 pm

What are your interests? You could find a group of people who share the same interests as you.

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07 Oct 2007, 6:48 pm

im interested in sports, video games, computers, Pro wrestling, movies, tv shows



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08 Oct 2007, 2:52 pm

I find it difficult to find REAL friends i have it in a other way than, chtucker18
My inrestests i keep them secret! But friendships are in relation with interests.
Thats i think the reason wai i cant making friends.

Maybe chtucker18 you could give other the love so you could love other people to or something.



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08 Oct 2007, 3:00 pm

i dont even try anymore. theres too much fakeness and "acting" involved to get peoples attention thats sais, "hey look at me, i am in need of friendship, would you like to be my friend?" no thanks.


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08 Oct 2007, 3:34 pm

richardbenson wrote:
i dont even try anymore. theres too much fakeness and "acting" involved to get peoples attention thats sais, "hey look at me, i am in need of friendship, would you like to be my friend?" no thanks.


Hmm i think you're right to that point. Its very difficult: how do we know of it friends are or not?
Are they real friends? Nobody says to me one day, ''now im gonna be a friend, hahaha.
But fakeness and acting and people that are all clones in this world.
Everybody is the same nobody like me or you or you.



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09 Oct 2007, 3:05 pm

yea i try to make friends by saying hi but they ignore me



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11 Oct 2007, 8:05 am

Very recognizable chtucker18. Thats on of the reasons wy i came depresief and mad.
Some autistic people irritatde me i have the idea that also ignore me when i say hai!
Where is the friendly part of the humanity? I think sometimes.

chtucker18 wrote:
yea i try to make friends by saying hi but they ignore me



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11 Oct 2007, 8:03 pm

I seem to be unable to make friends. I don't know what to say, so I just avoid socializing completely. I know that can't be good, but I do have my wife, my family and my old friends that I see once or twice a year, so it isn't all bad. I guess I'm content with the relationships I have. Maybe I'll have children with my wife someday and my circle will widen a bit.