TrueDave wrote:
You have no idea the weird social rules are to a guy making a new guy friend, And it takes forever.
You're right- I have no idea! I would like for my husband to find a good buddy dude friend he can do stuff with and talk to. He had one that died last year. I don't know how it works at all with any gender permutation (girl-girl, girl-guy, guy-guy) or that it was appreciably different.
This guy I am talking about, I told my husband to maybe try hanging out with him (like to watch "the game" on TV today together) but my husband stated he is not interested, despite an actual invite to the guy's place. So I am thinking what will happen, is these two guys will be in their respective homes each watching the game today and I'll be doing something else. It seems sort of illogical to me.