I have been following a great self-advocate and leader in the Asperger/Autism community named Jennifer Cook O'Toole, who I met during a Future Horizon's Conference. She has a business called "Asperkids" which sells great products. She and I seemed to relate easily on similar issues and she created a really good video on hurting after people reject us. I think this might be a good time to post this.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UdksnBxfBT0