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Dracula
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22 Mar 2008, 8:16 pm

I try to open up, be assertive, communicate properly. I've become assertive.... but after years of practice, it's like I still can't communicate worth a crap.

Online is almost just as bad. People start ignoring my PMs for no apparent reason, and it makes me reflect what I might have said wrong, and the failure is on repeat in my head.

I'm very close to giving up on people completely.



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22 Mar 2008, 8:59 pm

Your PMs may not be ignored. Some people only can get online occasionally.

Sometimes I sent PMs and will get a reply a few weeks later.

Don't give up!

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22 Mar 2008, 9:04 pm

Smelena wrote:
Your PMs may not be ignored. Some people only can get online occasionally.

Sometimes I sent PMs and will get a reply a few weeks later.

Don't give up!

Helen

I completely agree. Although I usually reply back on time, I've been known just to forget to reply to an e-mail because I was busy with something else while on the internet. It doesn't mean I don't like the person!



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22 Mar 2008, 9:14 pm

Self pity man, find a club and hobby.


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22 Mar 2008, 11:01 pm

grow the gift of beard
it works online and off
keep it clean and you will
possess the worlds most
compelling attribute


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Dracula
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23 Mar 2008, 7:58 am

weather1man wrote:
Self pity man, find a club and hobby.


OH shove it.



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23 Mar 2008, 9:08 am

Dracula wrote:
weather1man wrote:
Self pity man, find a club and hobby.


OH shove it.
ok then be depressed forever. I've been down that route, it's no good. People like me more, when i have a positive attitude. It's hard for me but it's slowly working despite not much changing I just feel better about myself. But if you want to moan about not having friends be my guest. I've done it myself.


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23 Mar 2008, 5:39 pm

I still think you should grow a beard


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23 Mar 2008, 7:20 pm

Practise makes perfect, always tryed to go by that one.



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23 Mar 2008, 10:41 pm

Fred2670 wrote:
grow the gift of beard
it works online and off
keep it clean and you will
possess the worlds most
compelling attribute

This man speaks truth.


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