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23 Apr 2008, 1:10 pm

there are two things i really hate in this world, and most, if not all, find this verry abnormal... the first is alcohol, i hate alcohol, and as long as i live i will never touch a drop in my life. god help me ill die if i do... the second is children... maybe just immature people but i dont know... i think its basicly most under the age of 10... i... just find them hard to deal with... so scary... this brings up quite a big problem because what happens when i get a wife, what do i say "honey, i dont ever want a kid, lets just let the family die with me" or "honey, when we have a kid your looking after it for the first 12 years?". to me this could be quite problematic... does anyone feel the same way?


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23 Apr 2008, 1:33 pm

I hear ya on the alcohol.

I've tasted some in the past, but I doubt I'd ever get into it as I really don't like the taste.


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23 Apr 2008, 2:09 pm

I hate alcohol. To the point where I don't just not drink, but actively avoid those who do - well, to any degree (you've had more than two? I'm out of there).
Not children, though.



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23 Apr 2008, 3:00 pm

Alcohol doesn't inherently bother me-however, drunk people can behave unbearably (if morose or mean). Am not an absolutist on this point-it depends on specific details of situation.

Children do bother me, I've no tolerance for them, period. My biological clock (compulsion that induces females to create or acquire offspring) seems not to have been installed-which is fine with me.


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23 Apr 2008, 3:31 pm

I hate cigarette smoke as well...I just can't stand the smell of nicotine reeking off somebody's clothes and hair.


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23 Apr 2008, 3:55 pm

Hate alcohol ??

Are you sure you're one of us ???


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23 Apr 2008, 4:30 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:
Hate alcohol ??

Are you sure you're one of us ???


are you?


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23 Apr 2008, 4:35 pm

One of who? :P


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23 Apr 2008, 5:19 pm

Hey, I hate kids too. That's why I don't have any. I told my husband when we were dating, if he wasnted kids, don't marry me. Don't assume every woman wants them, just make sure you're clear about that when something's getting serious. And don't always use condoms. I know a lot of people who didn't want kids, girlfriend said she was on the pill, she lied, they have kids. Protect yourself.
I'm so bad I don't even like puppies.

I do drink though.

I hate loud noises, if that counts.



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23 Apr 2008, 5:42 pm

I feel a similar dislike of children. My immediate family (Mom, dad, and my brother) and I all live with my adult sister, her husband, and her two children. The children are aged 2 and 1, and let me tell you - they are a real headache.



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23 Apr 2008, 5:54 pm

coregazer wrote:
there are two things i really hate in this world, and most, if not all, find this verry abnormal... the first is alcohol, i hate alcohol, and as long as i live i will never touch a drop in my life. god help me ill die if i do... the second is children... maybe just immature people but i dont know... i think its basicly most under the age of 10... i... just find them hard to deal with... so scary... this brings up quite a big problem because what happens when i get a wife, what do i say "honey, i dont ever want a kid, lets just let the family die with me" or "honey, when we have a kid your looking after it for the first 12 years?". to me this could be quite problematic... does anyone feel the same way?


I don't like alcohol at all either. I don't like the taste of it and I've seen it do too much damage in my family. Plus, I've seen my peers turn into complete wackos due to alcohol.

As for children, I have a hard time dealing with them because I can't speak their language and I don't know how to treat a child the right way. This was one of the reasons why I dropped my music education major as a whole. When you become a teacher, the #1 rule is to know just who you are teaching.


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24 Apr 2008, 10:03 am

YAY, im not a whacko, so yeah... kinda cool im not the only one who struggles with children. and as for beer, i wasn't really 100% worried about it but i hate it to death and want it to go away and never return so that i dont have to worry about it... anywho, there is a slight problem... im the only one in the family who can keep the family name going. and i just dont want to let the family die... i mean come on... pride is somthing most humans carry alot of and i may well be one of them... so i just cant let the family die out because of some stupid hate, but how can i overcome it?... can i overcome it...?


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24 Apr 2008, 11:52 am

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... anywho, there is a slight problem... im the only one in the family who can keep the family name going. and i just dont want to let the family die... i mean come on... pride is somthing most humans carry alot of and i may well be one of them... so i just cant let the family die out because of some stupid hate, but how can i overcome it?... can i overcome it...?

Well, unless you're of royal blood in line for some throne, it's really not a big deal. I've never understood the obsession with continuing a name. Your family lives on through female relatives, it's not dead. It's just a name.

Not a very good reason to reproduce, in my opinion.



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24 Apr 2008, 11:57 am

I don't like alcohol either. I've tried it a few times when I had a friend that wanted me to drink with him. I can't stand beer or straight alcohol of any kind. I can drink it if it is heavily masked, like a little rum in eggnog for instance. If I could have my way the stuff would never have existed and wouldn't exist now.

As for kids, I don't like loud babies, but I can get along with kids 3-12. My two year old niece is a nightmare when she comes over usually, but my soon to be eight year old niece is nice to be around. But she's one of those quiet kids, the kind I'd want to have if I ever had any, my sister lucked out with her. It really depends on the person. I used to do bus routes when I went to church and most of those kids were little monsters, but a few were nice and I could get along with them. Just like teens - adults, only a few of them were/are nice and got/get along well with me.


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anywho, there is a slight problem... im the only one in the family who can keep the family name going. and i just dont want to let the family die... i mean come on... pride is somthing most humans carry alot of and i may well be one of them... so i just cant let the family die out because of some stupid hate, but how can i overcome it?... can i overcome it...?


You could try donating sperm at a sperm bank.


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24 Apr 2008, 4:25 pm

still doesn't continue the family name... i want to be able to accept them... looks like im going to have to wait to see my pherapist for that one. or whatever you call them... XD. not sure.


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