NeantHumain wrote:
I wonder how many of you who claim to be popular or at least well known are slipping into the fantasy denial that's apparently pretty common for aspies (according to one paper I read about aspies and their conceptions of friendship). Some of you have not provided reasoning for why you might be popular, well known, or well liked. I'm not saying an aspie can't be popular, but denial is more likely in the general case at least
Are you saying aspies pretend to be popular, or create delusions that they are? A lot of popularity is relative, and there will always be people that don't like you, but most people can tell if they're liked or not. I guess some people on the spectrum are unable to pick up on how others see them... I had trouble with this when I was younger, and I still do, but it's getting easier. I do think that most aspies can generally tell if someone likes them or not, but it's harder to tell when they're being used or manipulated... what does everyone think?
I guess I'm well-liked now because I'm nice to everyone unless they give me a reason not to be... there's no doubt that some people talk about me behind my back, but it doesn't bother me anymore, and in spite of my flaws most people still want to be my friend. good reason?