iamlucille wrote:
I feel left out of everything that is happening around me. I don't have a serious social life, and I don't even know what I'm doing for halloween! I feel like I'm at the top of no one's list when everyone is at the top of mine... it sucks
That's a common feeling for heaps of people, including some NT's. You aren't alone. Just the other day my Mum (NT) said something similar to me.
I told her to never expect anything from anyone.
It's hurtful, but often it is making big hills out of little ones. It's not that people don't care, but they are very busy with their own lives.
When it comes to friends at school doing this to you, it is much more hurtful, because there is no reason why the can't or can't remeber to invite you along. This has happened to me a few times, and being dropped in favour of something else, thousands of times.
I don't know what advice to offer really, except do as much as you can that you enjoy, and if there is anyone in your life that makes you feel liked, treasure them.