Too rational/too logical?
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Nutterbug wrote:
I've always thought that being able to think rationally and logically were supposed to be virtues.
NTs never say what they really think. Mostly because they rarely think. They say what they are taught to say and do what they are taught to do, and the two rarely agree. Hint: Don't look for a rule in social interaction. Or in politics. Or in anything. There aren't any objective, standard rules. It's not what you do or say, but who you are. In any given situation, the alpha-person makes the rules and changes them at will. If the rules suit him at the moment, he might quote them at you. If they don't suit him, you can't quote them at him. They'll just call you "inflexible" or say that you "take everything literally." This "common sense" that everyone keeps talking about is nothing more than following the herd.Exile wrote:
looks definitely play a role, and DO tend to override brains.
Yes, your looks are worth a few points. Looks, brains, money, social abilities, connections... Who gets to be the boss depends on a bunch of things, sometimes including practical abilities and knowledge.Nutterbug wrote:
Has it ever dawned on anyone that there might be a lot less conflict and war in the world if everybody thought and acted rationally all the time?
Yep. We are not a disease. We are the cure. But good luck telling the masses about that.Nutterbug wrote:
Funny, I even get accused of being a racist when certain ethnic or minority groups wallow about the loss of their cultures and I start questioning their practical value.
I wouldn't call you a racist, but insensitivity can sometimes be irrational. Old cultures are mostly worth keeping, especially when you can't offer something better. (Current western culture sucks -- they're better off running naked through the rain forest.) You can often point to certain elements of a culture that are bad, like the male-chauvinism in some Spanish cultures, or the alcoholism in some Italian families. But mostly it's worth keeping. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
Tahitiii wrote:
Nutterbug wrote:
I've always thought that being able to think rationally and logically were supposed to be virtues.
NTs never say what they really think. Mostly because they rarely think. They say what they are taught to say and do what they are taught to do, and the two rarely agree. I thought it was we who had to be taught what to say or do. I thought they just flowed with the situation naturally and intuitively.
Tahitiii wrote:
Nutterbug wrote:
Funny, I even get accused of being a racist when certain ethnic or minority groups wallow about the loss of their cultures and I start questioning their practical value.
I wouldn't call you a racist, but insensitivity can sometimes be irrational. Old cultures are mostly worth keeping, especially when you can't offer something better. (Current western culture sucks -- they're better off running naked through the rain forest.) You can often point to certain elements of a culture that are bad, like the male-chauvinism in some Spanish cultures, or the alcoholism in some Italian families. But mostly it's worth keeping. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.I see the last sentence as being akin to "If horse carriages work, don't invent automobiles."
The way I see it, the cream will rise to the top, and the best aspects of all cultures will endure when you mix and mash them all together. That is, unless the meddling hand of social engineering intervenes.
Nutterbug wrote:
I thought it was we who had to be taught what to say or do. I thought they just flowed with the situation naturally and intuitively.
The only thing they do "naturally and intuitively" is follow the leader. Whoever is in charge fills their heads with "rules" that make no sense. We can't figure it out because we are looking for rational rules, which do not exist. So they kindly try to clue us in with lies and crazy talk.I want rules that are standardized and follow some kind of logic, like a math puzzle or traffic regulations. You see a red light, you stop -- the rule applies to everyone equally, with specific exceptions that make sense. We have a rule against parking in front of someone's driveway. It doesn't matter who you are. If the mayor parks in front of my driveway, he is simply braking a rule. Who he is shouldn't matter. (What I want and what I get are not the same thing. Our "nation of laws" is a pipe dream.)
Nutterbug wrote:
I see the last sentence as being akin to "If horse carriages work, don't invent automobiles."
Not exactly. Just don't force them to give up their horses until they have the infrastructure. A car isn't worth much in a neighborhood with no gas stations or repair shops.Nutterbug wrote:
The way I see it, the cream will rise to the top, and the best aspects of all cultures will endure when you mix and mash them all together.
That would be so nice. Unfortunately, in the real world, the crap rises to the top, until you find yourself with a psycho who considers himself to be the emperor of the universe. The legal mass murders over the past eight years is over a million, and still growing.
Nutterbug wrote:
I wonder if Joe Neurotypical would blow up inside if he were pent up by any imposed need to be rational all the time.
Absolutely. It will never work.
Forcing people to all march to the same drummer never works. The use of Oppression and tyrany just makes them mad. That's why this whole idea of a world government is inherently evil. Even if the goals seemed rational on the surface, the methods of imposing those goals would, of necessity, be so brutal that we would never get around to the part with the good intentions. Ghandi himself could never make it work. Then again, I'm sure he would know better than to try.
If a decent person were to accidentally inherit that kind of power (cough-Obama-cough)
the only sensible thing to do would be to destroy it as quickly as possible, in a way that would prevent it from ever happening again. Like Frodo, throwing the One Ring back into Mt. Doom. (I have a sneaking suspicion that it's not going to happen, and that we're all screwed.)
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Tahitiii wrote:
I want rules that are standardized and follow some kind of logic, like a math puzzle or traffic regulations. You see a red light, you stop -- the rule applies to everyone equally, with specific exceptions that make sense. We have a rule against parking in front of someone's driveway. It doesn't matter who you are. If the mayor parks in front of my driveway, he is simply braking a rule. Who he is shouldn't matter. (What I want and what I get are not the same thing. Our "nation of laws" is a pipe dream.)
Are politicians and law enforcement not an arm's length apart in your (or any) part of the world? Letting them have direct influence over one another has the hallmarks of an autocracy. Politicians are supposed to serve, not rule, the people.....right?
Mind you, the mere existence of a presidential pardon has me questioning this notion for what is supposed to the the leader of the "free and democratic world" that is the USA.
Nutterbug wrote:
the "free and democratic world" that is the USA.
Where? If you see one, let me know. They threw ours away years ago.
Most of us are living under marshal law. We have no rights at all.
http://www.aclu.org/privacy/spying/arey ... ezone.html
(Scroll down for a map of our "Constitution Free" zone.)
DevonB wrote:
I'm far to rational and logical. Unfortunate for me in some ways as when people are telling me their problems, i just see the rational answer and give it to them. They just DON'T like that.
They chat about feelings and emotions...I don't really relate. If something is bothering you, fix it. If someone is hurting you, ditch them. I just dont' understand certain people's need to wallow in a problem.
It also affects how I watch movies. If it isn't logical, I just get irritated. That isn't to say that I don't enjoy fantasy...but it has to work within the pretext that they have constructed. So if there are vampires...there have to be rules about them. You just can't go making them do things that aren't within those rules.
It also backfires at work. When you are told "this is the way we do things" even though it's illogical, or there is a better way. Why not change it? Why keep doing it that way when there is a more efficient way to do it?
Cheers!
They chat about feelings and emotions...I don't really relate. If something is bothering you, fix it. If someone is hurting you, ditch them. I just dont' understand certain people's need to wallow in a problem.
It also affects how I watch movies. If it isn't logical, I just get irritated. That isn't to say that I don't enjoy fantasy...but it has to work within the pretext that they have constructed. So if there are vampires...there have to be rules about them. You just can't go making them do things that aren't within those rules.
It also backfires at work. When you are told "this is the way we do things" even though it's illogical, or there is a better way. Why not change it? Why keep doing it that way when there is a more efficient way to do it?
Cheers!
So much about me too.
But I figured at one point why people talk about things without actually asking for advice. Ask yourself : do you do that? I do. Because I want to reflect on some problem.. that is it. Yes I tend to reason and give advice. But I always try to stop myself. Because just from sheer reasoning I know: they do not want advice. They just want to have a listener. This is like (am sorry for comparison) my cat: she mews and wants some food. So I give it it her. I figured when she does that because that she is hungry and when she does that because she is bored. So I give to her what she wants...
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