Ever feel a freind might not like you?

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I always go on FB and it's going here/there etc. One friend suggested an event for Sat. sure she said and yet I sent her a list of plans and it was "Oh work etc. can't spend money etc." FOR god sake you just went to Universal/Disney! SHEESH! (Sure Universal was payed for not sure on Disney) So IMO don't give me that money BS line! I KNOW you had to have spent money at those theme parks COME ON! So ever feel a friend doesn't like you (I mention a movie it's oh nextweekend another friend it's sure thing!)

yeah, its an excuse but who cares. Make more friends. Don't just rely on one person, create a network.

I just deleted almost everyone on facebook tonight. I have probably 5 family members and 4 friends now.

I do the same thing. People ignore my messages, I see them having a better time than I am on their pictures and posts. so I just delete them . I actually finally ended up deleted my entire account. i got sick of being ignored.

hahaha. I do the same thing too.

Zelda, I apologise. In the past I wasn't too sympathetic to how you felt about this friend- it was clear to me that she was flakey, but I didn't see why you didn't just let it go.

But I had a similar experience with a previously close friend brushing me off too. I now know how it feels; it sucks and it's confusing because you were once closer and I know myself I find it hard to tell when things are more distant, so it caught me off foot. Your friend has been doing this for quite a while though, judging by your previous posts,

If she's going to be a flake, you really do just need to be flakey as hell back to her and not care as much. She may have moved on with her life, so you need to do the same and not bother with trying to organise stuff anymore. She isn't your good friend anymore- she's a high school friend and she seems to think she's grown out of you, so you need to do exactly the same back and move on.

Don't even bother trying to convey your feelings to her; she's gone and not worth it. I found the haven 'unsent letters' thread helpful to rant in; maybe you could give that a go?

But then you just need to go find something better to do. Make your own plans and do exactly what you wanted to do with her, without her and invite someone else along if you feel like it.

Yeah Ive had people do that to me before especially in highschool. The only socially appropriete thing to do that I can think of is just to stop attempting to make plans. Something that I do frequently that might not be that socially appropriete is confront them about it. Give all your reasonings for why you think what shes saying is BS.

Just now I asked are you busy (through texts) she said no what's up. I texted her call my cell (since it'd be hard to put into text) she said she couldn't. (I was asking for a special code from a cereal box) she put the following "and I can't talk right now cus matt and I are just busy srry." (BTW guys my first text was r u busy? her reply "no what's up") Then IMO DAMN you can't take 5min. to call from your cell phone SHEESH! I starting to thank like some of yall maybe this ONE friend isn't worth it. I agree she has grown apart (we grew up playing games and toys) Now she's in College (and I'm returning) and she drives (I don't) etc. (As I said it's on FB doing stuff and me doing nothing) Darn this friend!

The couple of friends I have, yes, I do feel like they don't like me sometimes. I hate feeling like that. I don't feel wanted anywhere sometimes. Oh yeah, I also delete people from Facebook all the time. All it takes is for them to ignore me or annoy me in some way and I end up going on a deleting rampage.

Sanch, I just had a bad night last night and it ticked me off that I had moved back to my hometown and only a single person seemed to want to make an effort to "hang out" with me. I've been going out of my mind from boredom and with people making status updates like "just went ____ with _____" it just irritates me. I could have kept a couple of them really cause I bet if I made more effort to hang out with them they might but meh, if they notice I'm missing I'll add them back.

I take it that people that everyone here goes on deleting rampages kinda funny cause when I was in high school I was the only one I knew that did.

I've gone through a similar situation, very recently. A friend and I grew apart, and she's written off everybody else, as well. Dean and Barb, as well. She grew out of us, and I guess that we grew out of her. She never did mesh, with our group.