If someone invited me to a meet-up, I'd have to wonder what kind of person would want to meet a paunchy, balding, wheezing, middle-aged man who walks with a pronounced limp. Or, as a wise comedian once put it, "I wouldn't want to join any club that would have me for a member."
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The mere fact that science may not yet adequately explain an object, event, or experience does not mean the immediate explanation should automatically default to a conspiratorial, extraterrestrial, paranormal, or supernatural cause.