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So true, Bataar! I envy so much those people who complain "I have no friends except for my spouse". I guess friendlessness is a relative issue.
Mine wasn't a complaint. I've been blessed with a beautiful wife and I don't really care to have friends. I don't think the rewards are worth the work and stress. No complaints.
I think it's may be more of a catagorization issue then a relativeness. The OP asked do you have friends, but the replies seem to be focusing on three different groups of people; friends, family, and spouses. I see these as three distinct groups of people (plus there are also acquaintances and strangers.) If one studies peoples interactions with these different groups of people, you'll see they do belong in distinct groups. People treat friends differently then they do spouses, then they do family, then they do strangers, etc.. So when the OP asked do you have friends, I can say no, even though I may have a spouse. Its a different group. Or I can have a spouse and a family I interact with, but no friends. Or maybe I just over analyzed this whole thing. Not too shocking, I over analyze everything..
There probably is a relativeness too when one tries to decide when a acquaintance becomes a friend. So there probably is a relativeness factor also.
Sorry for the confusion I may have caused.