I think it ended up costing my brother around $5000 to get his first class solo license. But because of the $$$ involved, he stopped doing it. I think he needs 30 more hours to be able to fly others around (another $3000) so he too is a Virtual Pilot.
That said, I suppose if you are really yearning to be a pilot in reality, you do need to sacrifice alot to get there, like any worthwhile dream.