The language includes the word 'tests', so I do need my ex on board.
Once I brought my son to the after hours clinic just to check if he had an ear infection, since he had a bad cold. The NP wanted to do a chest X-ray on him to make sure he didn't have pneumonia, since he was so congested!! ! I'm like, ummmmm NO! His oxygen saturation levels were normal. A chest X-ray for a cold? Are you serious? So that's why I included the word tests for joint medical decisions.