Hi, Being shy doesn't mean that you are an aspie. When was young before the age of four I was a chatterbox, then I became supper shy, and a loner. Mostly other people like my mother did the talking for me and people kept saying I was so shy. You know if this or anythng else negative is said to you all the time, you begin to believe it and so you are living it. I have learned social skill in a group and are now able to speak without getting this nervous feeling in my stomach, you're not doing anything wrong by asking a question. It's all about possitive feedback.