Honestly, sometimes, as much as I am into politics and political history, it gets to be too much on occasion. Discussing political topics can be such a drain, both emotionally and on relationships.
This was one of the main reasons why I was so reluctant to actually enter to go into this sub-forum (and to a lesser extend the current affairs/news forum). The conflict is inevitable. There is bound to be disagreement. Hard, difficult differences between people that talk friendly on the non-serious (well, not really) part of the board. I wanted to avoid it because I knew that I would get hooked into it quickly, and would not be able to break myself away. But while this gives me new energy it also tests my own lack of self confidence and my desperate wish not to offend others into not liking me.
Sometimes those last two characteristics can be a good thing. When I make a obvious factual mistake (whether it is pointed out, or I notice it myself) I make every effort to correct it. I also try as hard as I can to argue against opinion rather then against person.
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Still, however, I cannot help the negative feelings I get inside sometimes. "Maybe I shouldn't have posted that," I think to myself, "It might have made them angry or upset."
EDIT: Just to be clear (not that anyone has said otherwise), this is a me issue. I don't think the people I have debates with have done anything wrong.
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