To me thinking in "between" absolutes is the only way I can really understand something. For example, I used to be frustrated because I couldn't really nail down what my political affiliation was, and it's not that I wasn't political or well read, because I am, it's that I have so much processing all the information, and knowing which information to trust or not. For example, if I was just coming into American politics and I wanted to decide whether I was Republican or Democrat. Well, if you hang around with such and such and watch Micheal Moore documentaries then you know that the economy sucks because of Bush and the mideast sucks because of Bush and everything else in this country that sucks does so because of Bush. Or you could make some conservative friends and listen to Rush Limbaugh find out that Bush is the underdog who inherited problems from Clinton and Iraq isn't actually that bad, you get the idea. Well, I'm not an economist and I haven't been to Iraq and there's no way I can make an objective judgement on things like this without giving every single issue a LOT of thought and analysis (which no one does, their affiliation automatically provides their perspective). So I ended up "becoming" libertarian, and whenever I tell some person who's very political, they start up with the national park privatization thing, and I tell them that I don't think national parks should be privatized and that beyond that I don't have all the answers, that anyone who thinks they do is fooling themselves, and that opinions can be widely divergent within one party.
Also, being socially "unintuitive," I've been known to miss out on some aspects of friendship or relationships. At the same time, I feel I can see but not understand other aspects of them that most people are aware of on only a subconscious level. The only way I can reconcile these things that I can't understand to myself is by imagining them as being stranded between two points on a line and leave them at that. It helps me take things not quite so personally when I feel that people are more conflicted in the choices that they make.