platypus wrote:
Blue Jay
Joined: Dec 11, 2004
Posts: 80
Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 3:02 am
Post subject: Re: Hmmmmm?
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Ghosthunter wrote:
Blue Jay
Joined: Dec 11, 2004
Posts: 78
Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 7:35 am
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Ghosthunter,
Platypus wrote.....
I found this posting of yours even
more poignant than usual.
I, too, was raised by my grandmother.
I've been out of contact with my mother
for many years. I applaud you for
reaching out to your mom, even though
your relationship is also detached.
My mother was very young when she had
me, so most of the good things I remember
about her are fun things, like playing video
games together.
Ghosthunter wrote:
Hmmmmm? May I ask why did your
Grandmother raise you. What's the
story on your mom? and You? and
living with your Grandmother?
I hope I don't seem too forward
in these questions? I am being
recipicol based!
Hmmm?
Ghosthunter
Platypus Wrote......
Ghosthunter,
Basically, my mom lived with my
grandmother and me. She met a guy, a
nd took off to live with him when I was
nine years old or so. They lived in a city
with some crime and a poor school district,
so I remained with my grandmother. Really,
I do not think my mother wanted the
responsibility.
I am glad you expressed this. My mother
really annoys my Grandmother. There
was this dissappearing act she did with
my dad Bruce. And my Grandmother
said she didn't know my sister and I
existed until my sister was 3, and I was
2. My mother took flight again and
had another 1/2 sister, Kristen. She
is now a stripper and very wild like
my mom was when she was younger.
After that marriage, She had a thing
with this truckdriver(no marriage to
my knowledge) and had Tonya,
another 1/2 sister, who, as I was
told wants nothing to do with Anita.
I get this stuff from my Grandmother.
Talk about distant, Tonya would
fit Aspergers to a tee. My mom
would also. So detached and
silent!
KingChaosNinja wrote:
Blue Jay
Joined: Apr 26, 2005
Posts: 96
Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 5:47 pm
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My mother is very good at not admiting
there is a problem. My mother is the queen
of denial. She still has a hard time admiting
that I'm autistic, and she tells a few people
as possible. Even when they know she's
hiding something. She also says it's not a
good idea to tell people becuase there is
no right way to explain it to them. That's
why I came out infront of my entire family
at Christmas in spite because the opprotunaty
presented itself.
I am perplexed by her denial. Is it
that she feels it's her fault? If so
reassurance that it may not be might(???)
be a good tool? How is she in other
aspects of your life? What kind of
schooling did you get? What kind
of emotional support did you have
from her when you were younger?
Are you ASD, AS, or HFA?
Sophist wrote:
Phoenix
Joined: Apr 24, 2005
Posts: 707
Location: St. Louis
Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 3:52 am
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Sorry for the stereotype in advance,
but my mother can be an excellent martyr
(even though she's not Jewish).
Huhhhh? Fascinating Captain!
Explain? I am not getting how a car
and this coorolate???????///
SpaceCase wrote:
Blue Jay
Joined: Mar 15, 2005
Posts: 94
Location: Mississippi,USA
Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 11:21 am
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There's nothing special about my mom she's a
total b*** and she should do something about it.
Hmmmmm? Explain what she does, and
doesn't do? Why do you feel this way
about her? hmmmmm? interesting?
To all that replied in the above statements,
Thankyou!
Ghosthunter
11 Jun 2005, 2:47 am
