Desperate - Help! (UK)
whirlingmind
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Thanks for this. It's worth a try. I wish I could have thought up this for myself too! Instead I have just spent my life avoiding sleep/bed and laying there fretting as I had no solution. Anything that can avoid my daughter going through this is worth trying.
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*Truth fears no trial*
DX AS & both daughters on the autistic spectrum
The "why me?" thing will be on-going.
And it is impossible to answer
I resorted finally to telling Dot, "because you're my daughter" and taking the blame but it isn't in her nature to play the blame game so she hasn't thrown it back at me.
By the time she was told that she had a basic grasp of genetics and understood that no parent ever knows what their children will inherit from them (it doesn't help that some of us weren't aware we had anything unusual to pass on in the first place). She also knows we had a lot of difficulty getting her into this world, including losing her twin which probably affected her development in-utero.
AardvarkGoodSwimmer
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