Do you often worry that you're annoying someone?

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Yes.. all the time because I can't tell if I am annoying them so it's really awful if they're trying to hint it and I'm just not getting it.. Someone has to tell me because otherwise, I just don't know and then they never talk to me again and I don't know why... It kinda sucks :/

Yes. I worry what I say might annoy somebody.

I don't worry about it, because I don't care if I annoy people. They can get over themselves.

I worry about it yes. If there is one thing I hate it is being a bother for others.

Definitely... which is why I keep to myself a lot.

Most certainly, especially due to my tendency to ramble.

Half the time i'm speaking to someone, I worry i'm annoying someone, it seems to get worse the better I know them - I don't really care if i'm annoying a stranger, but when i'm talking to friends or family 85% of the time the thought going through my head is am I being annoying? Do they think i'm annoying?

I annoy certain people and what is most disconcerting is that I don't know what I am doing to annoy them. I don't do it intentionally and it bothers me because it results in some people make jokes at my expense.

I used to be scared to talk to my ex boyfriend when we were dating because he told me that I was annoying him. He eventually broke up with me. I have a different boyfriend now and he is awesome.

I do... some people even tell me that I'm annoying them...

I ALWAYS FEEL I ANNOY PEOPLE. Just when they start to ask me things I will talk like there is no tomorrow. I don't care that much though, the majority of people for me are boring and uninteresting. I just care about the modest ones.

I know i annoy people. i just don't care anymore. i am who i am. it feel really freeing not caring anymore.

the only time i do worry is when i meet someone i enjoy hanging out with. because i actually really do love friendship, most ppl are just too different from me for me to desire hanging out. so its can get lonely, leading to over worrying when it comes to people i actually think are cool.

dinetah, I know how you feel... But when you don't think about it you tend to be more fluid with people. Worrying makes things difficult. So don't think when getting to know people. Usually they are glad that you worry about them and look them into the eyes. If you make it simple, it will be simple.

Argentina is not a country for Aspies, unfortunately. People can be very rude, narcisist and close-minded, also very ignorant and proud. I was there once Bluex, we live in this country and people never change no matter the part of Argentina. As I said, I don't try a lot, but at least I try.