Asperger96 wrote:
and the head of my schools special ed department refuses to talk to me. Its always "i'll talk to you later" but later never happens.
First rule of special ed depts.: Do everything in writing, and that includes asking them whether they take sugar in their coffee.
Why put everything important in writing?
Every time you put pen to paper you create a legal document.
I therefore recommend that you put in a printed form (or email would be even better) a document setting out what difficulties you are having, and how the school might help you overcome those difficulties.
Do it as soon as possible.
Give them one half-day from receipt, and then follow it up with a phone call.
If you get no joy from that, write again (in stronger terms).
Keep at it. I've been in a similar situation to yours and it was nightmarish.
And if you suffer a crisis of confidence over any of the above, remember:
1) It's your career that's suffering
2) It's their actual FREAKING JOB to help you
Good luck1