Yes it's possible for autistic women to attract neurotypicals. I don't understand the question, really.
There are no absolutes in life.
The one ASD girl I knew was crazy in love with an ASD guy but there were SO many NT guys that were crazy about her, despite how nuts she was (she was funny, nice, but I have no other way to describe her but a little nuts.. obsessive, controlling, stalking, physically violent, etc). Granted, the guys into her were what many people would consider "odd" but they were NT nonetheless.
And I have a question, for the guys that you do attract that are more introverted, how do you know they are ASD?
Also there are many variations of extroverted and introverted people. To be extroverts are people who ENJOY surrounding themselves by people and do so most of the time. Introverts being the opposite.
However, you may have an outgoing person who is introverted, (like myself). If I am surrounded by people I am very outgoing, friendly, funny, what not.. But I strongly prefer to be by myself and I will try to avoid being around people or leave as soon as I can.
So is your dating preference NT's or are you just wanting to try something new? I find this interesting because I am the exact opposite.
I strongly prefer a woman on the spectrum but that could be that all the women I've dated were NT's..