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League_Girl
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20 May 2015, 1:30 am

tagnacious wrote:
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You are absolutely free to report posts that break the rules, including where you think a user is being bullied. It's probably best you avoid saying that you've reported someone in the thread though.


Seriously. If I remember correctly, I thought I was being light-hearted and trying to stop things from overflowing before they got completely nasty. Mission not accomplished.



Telling someone you reported them can make things escalate between you two. It's better you do it behind their backs if you know what I mean. I don't think any mod will tell them who reported them. But yet we have an open thread here where we can openly report things, especially other members. But telling them you reported them will just draw more attention.


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20 May 2015, 2:47 am

Thanks Tagnacious. :)

I probably shouldn't have said that you threw a tantrum. Sorry about that.

If you're concerned about how a thread is going, options in addition to the report button include talking it out in the thread, or sending a private message to a moderator with your concerns. I know we got off to a bad start, but I'm always willing to talk to members who message me with their concerns. I won't necessarily agree, and I won't hesitate to be blunt if I think the situation warrants it, but I will keep listening and engaging in dialogue.


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