Okay, let me explain what happened. I wasn't happy being listed as Male because the closest I get to that is feminine leaning gender fluid. I went into my settings to see if I could change it to just say nothing. I found it was already unlisted. Select was selected. I wanted to try changing it to a selection and back again to see if that would just remove the label from my posts. When I returned to my account controls, however, I found my selection box missing completely. Now I'm stuck on Female which, while some better, is still not correct. So I have two problems.
1) Can I get my selection box back? Where did it go?
2) If there is no option that sufficiently identifies me, can I just have my gender unlisted? Being forced to choose between Male and Female is uncomfortable for me.
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