Asking to turn music down?

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My office lets people listen to music with headphones and earbuds while they work, but sometimes they still play it loud enough that I can hear it from a long ways off. I can't concentrate when there's music playing at all, but when I ask them to turn it down they get mad. Nobody else even seems to notice it. My bosses act like I'm making unreasonable demands. I don't think its asking too much to not have to hear other peoples music when Im working. Is it bad to ask people to turn their music down so I can't hear it?

I'd like to go to the Moon some day.

Seriously, I think this might be a situation where you should get "noise-cancelling" headphones. Just don't tell your co-workers the exact purpose of the headphones.

Yup, active noise cancelling headphones if you can afford them, or if not, earplugs with the highest SNR rating you can, and block the noise out. Silicone I find good because it can be molded to you easily and creates a much better seal around the outer ears than foam. If your workplace lets people listen to music so loud they can't hear anything else outside that music, then they can't complain about you making yourself virtually deaf in your hearing protection.
I have misophonia so know all about others reacting as if you're trying to be difficult when you can't stand a noise they can't even hear. That's just ignorance - people automatically assume everyone is the same as them, and don't realize how loud and overwhelming this is to you. All you can do is compensate in ways that take the noise down to levels bearable for you.

I'm getting some custom moulded silicon ear plugs. Quite expensive but I think they'll be worth the money as long as I don't lose them. Will probably post about them when I've got them and tried them out.