Nonsense words - where's the line of "normal"

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I know that a degree of verbal creativity is normal with kids, but where's the fuzzy, broad "line" between neurotypical kid behaviour and more autistic self soothing?

Its repetitious and usually at the end of the day when she's tired, hanging upside down off the couch singing/saying the same few sounds on repeat. She's six. My three year old does not do this.

Other than it being vaguely annoying I'm not bothered by it, and I'm not trying to stop it (in fact I think it's kind of cute). I'm just trying to guage the level of normal as I'm trying to keep notes for when we take her for assessment (no fixed date at this point).

No idea where the line is. I guess it's kind of arbitrary.
I did something like this a lot as a kid and remember even mentioning it to a counsellor in high school – not as something that bothered me, just in a casual conversation he mentioned this kind of playing with words and I said 'Oh, I did it a lot as a child'. His response was 'Yes, kids do this, one could start to worry if they don't stop it growing up' or something like this. Anyway, he didn't show any concern about it.

Years later it turned out I've got Asperger's syndorme

I wouldn't worry about this but you can mention it to the specialists if it comes to her assessment.

It kinds like self-soothing behaviour to me but I guess NT and autistics both self soothe. Like hair fidgeting, sucking hair etc. and the like.

I would absolutely not try to stop it.

My daughter does a lot of verbal stimming, lots of vibratory sounds, "drrrrr" when she is happy and elated and a lot of other sounds when she is not!

I kept a daily diary where I just jotted stuff down leading up to assessment, it is amazing how fast you forget about a phase of behaviour once something new comes along....

You don't have to figure out how normal/weird it is. Just mention it at the assessment, and let them sort it out.

My take, as a parent of an NT kid and one with ASD, is that it's semi-normal at that age. Nothing to worry about on its own, but taken with other symptoms it could paint a larger picture of ASD. Likely just a phase either way.