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TheRevengeofTW1ZTY
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19 Jun 2019, 7:49 am

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You can over-react sometimes or get carried away but I've never had problems understanding your posts. If you can, try to let go of that comment, it was a long time ago and it could have been caused by all kind of reasons (like wanting to upset you) that might not necessarily be relevant.

As a side note, you're one of the extremely rare people here who can and will admit they made a mistake and even apologise 8O You're an endangered species and I hope you stick around :lol:


The thing I worry about is if I'm apologizing for my actions over and over again people will think I'm not really being sincere. :(


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19 Jun 2019, 8:07 am

Better to show insight...than to be arrogant.



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19 Jun 2019, 9:38 am

TheRevengeofTW1ZTY wrote:
BenderRodriguez wrote:
You can over-react sometimes or get carried away but I've never had problems understanding your posts. If you can, try to let go of that comment, it was a long time ago and it could have been caused by all kind of reasons (like wanting to upset you) that might not necessarily be relevant.

As a side note, you're one of the extremely rare people here who can and will admit they made a mistake and even apologise 8O You're an endangered species and I hope you stick around :lol:


The thing I worry about is if I'm apologizing for my actions over and over again people will think I'm not really being sincere. :(

Some people (too many actually) think apologising is a sign of weakness. They're wrong, admitting you made a mistake actually takes strength and character.


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19 Jun 2019, 9:44 am

BenderRodriguez wrote:
TheRevengeofTW1ZTY wrote:
BenderRodriguez wrote:
You can over-react sometimes or get carried away but I've never had problems understanding your posts. If you can, try to let go of that comment, it was a long time ago and it could have been caused by all kind of reasons (like wanting to upset you) that might not necessarily be relevant.

As a side note, you're one of the extremely rare people here who can and will admit they made a mistake and even apologise 8O You're an endangered species and I hope you stick around :lol:


The thing I worry about is if I'm apologizing for my actions over and over again people will think I'm not really being sincere. :(

Some people (too many actually) think apologising is a sign of weakness. They're wrong, admitting you made a mistake actually takes strength and character.


A lot of people seem to think that showing any form of compassion to another human being is a sign of weakness. Some think that even accepting an apology is a sign of weakness (like my mom for example).

No wonder the world is so screwed up. People are conditioned to reject compassion and empathy. :|


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19 Jun 2019, 9:49 am

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Yeah, I know, it's often a power game.

I know you're troubled and suffering. Try showing yourself a bit of kindness and compassion too, it's all you can do sometimes.


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19 Jun 2019, 9:52 am

Charity and compassion are integral human qualities, TW1Z. We need more of it on Wrong Planet, and in real life. If you can be forgiving of yourself and continue to understand your triggers, you'll feel much more confident and at peace.


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19 Jun 2019, 9:53 am

TheRevengeofTW1ZTY wrote:
BenderRodriguez wrote:
You can over-react sometimes or get carried away but I've never had problems understanding your posts. If you can, try to let go of that comment, it was a long time ago and it could have been caused by all kind of reasons (like wanting to upset you) that might not necessarily be relevant.

As a side note, you're one of the extremely rare people here who can and will admit they made a mistake and even apologise 8O You're an endangered species and I hope you stick around :lol:


The thing I worry about is if I'm apologizing for my actions over and over again people will think I'm not really being sincere. :(


That's their problem , not yours - f**k em :twisted:


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