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TheRevengeofTW1ZTY
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19 Jul 2019, 10:17 am

How can I make myself stop? I think I do it for shock value... :(

And I'm sorry for the terrible things I say.


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19 Jul 2019, 12:09 pm

Would you like me to say something disturbing in reply to give you comfort that you are not alone? :roll:

I do that too.


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19 Jul 2019, 7:40 pm

Regardless of emotion, I say "stupid and disturbing things"




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19 Jul 2019, 8:52 pm

It is one way how we cope. Sometimes we may not even know we are upset until we get grumpy.


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24 Jul 2019, 9:33 am

I've been known to lose my stupid head when upset, too.